The relationship between men and women is all to often defined and sanctified by standards and morays created by society with little regard for the basic drives and desires we experience as human animals. The result is that we are always being influenced by desires, not always bad per se, that society does not allow us to acknowledge or act upon openly. This judgement is not merely a phenomena of society at large, but often is reflected in the way we as partners perceive our lover's fantasies and desires as well. As a man, I find myself being rather circumspect about communication of some of the more unusual ideas for scenes and fantasies that go through my mind on any given evening. I suppose this is due to some deep seated fear that once the animal within me is truly exposed that I would lose the love of my confessor. The most basic part of me is motivated by desires centered around the production and disemination of as much semen as possible. I would be willing to bet that this desire is virtually universal among men regardless of lifestyle or orientation, and is summarily buried by most in an effort to conform. or suborned into sessions of masturbation in the morning shower For the sexual play partners of men, it would be worth remembering that desire. Virtually all of a mans biological programming is designed to maximize the production and sexual distribution of his cum. As thinking rational beings we are able to control this basic instinct to one degree or another, and so are rarely seen humping the legs of every fertile female that appears, but the desire is there nonetheless. The really great part about being aware of this physiological programming is that it allows us to pander to the desire without being controlled by the evolutionary mandate to actually reproduce. This ability allows us a freedom that society frowns upon, but is there for us to take if that's what we want. Nothing is quite so liberating as to be able to admit to a willing and hungry partner that you desire to fill her softness with cum, to literally paint her with your semen, to watch it squirt into her mouth.
Nothing is as physically and emotionally fulfilling as a partner that wants to feel my cum spurting into her mouth, to taste the pungent flavor of my passion, and to smear my still teasing length onto her lips and cheeks.
As animals our instincts are to take by force any female that is attractive and convenient.
The dominant role in a bondage relationship allows us to do just that. So much is written about the liberation that submissives feel in the loss of responsibility, but I have to speak up loudly for the rush of power that comes with being dominant.
The object of my desire is tied or restrained, and thus immobilized made to feel the control that I can and will exert in the achievement of my ultimate goal. The fact that my efforts can bring her to heights of pleasure as well are a bonus, but let's face it, I tie, hang, flog and spank her because it feels good to me as well. It is all a prelude to spreading more cum. Is this a politically incorrect idea? Probably. People talk about the generous natures of dominants, and I laugh.
We are motivated by our own pleasures. We are good and kind and gentle because ultimately this gets us what we need.
Whats the point? The point is that if we first understand what we are, we can then use who we are to enjoy being.
There is the real freedom.
Not in unrestrained hedonism, but in being able to acknowledge the animal within and feeding him with what he needs. Keep it in mind ladies. |
